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Sunday, August 17, 2008
So, you want to know how to treat a girl? Every girl is different, so not everything you do for one girl will necessarily flatter another. But there are some general things you can do to show a girl that you care.
Steps
Be Nice to her. Remember that every human being wants to be appreciated. The more genuine and specific you are, the better.
Steps
Be Nice to her. Remember that every human being wants to be appreciated. The more genuine and specific you are, the better.
Respect her future. The fact is, you might not end up being "the one". Don't do anything that will compromise her future because of something you did. If you aren't ready to be a father, don't work the relationship that way. If you don't like "used goods" then don't ruin her possibilities by turning her into them.
Let her talk about herself. If you say you want to get to know her better, and you then take over all the conversations, she will think you are self-centered and not very interested in her after all.
Find out about her hobbies by asking questions about the kind of music she likes, observing her environment, and asking about clothes or pictures she might have.
Compliment her. Say that her hair looks nice or that a shirt looks great on her. Then look in her eyes, and smile. Mean it. Keep it real.
A small gift is a nice touchTell her she is pretty. No matter how average she thinks her looks may be, a girl will usually be flattered and pleased to know you think she is attractive. Say "You've got the most beautiful eyes/hair/skin/hands/etc. I've ever seen," and again, mean it!
Maintain good hygiene. Take a shower, put on deodorant, brush your teeth, and shave (if needed) right before you see her—every time. Nothing makes a girl more uncomfortable than body odor and/or bad breath.
Listen! You need to be a good listener. That works with most of the girls; they need someone who will patiently listen and understand them! There is a huge difference between "hearing" and "listening", so make sure you are actively listening to her.
Let her know about things she might be interested in. This will show her you remembered and are thinking about her, and the things she likes.
Don't forget her special occasions - especially her birthday.
Be truthful. There is no need to lie. Being honest during the dating process means you respect her wants and needs, but you also recognize your own. If you find yourself always apologizing or trying to soothe her ruffled feathers, you need to honestly decide whether or not the two of you are a match. Treating a girl well also means recognizing this truth, and telling her in a way that hurts as little as possible—as soon as you know.
Co-operate to understand her point of view if you disagree. Repeat or reflect her feelings so that she knows you really heard her. If it makes sense to you, apologize for your actions that upset her. If you feel you were in the right, however, tell her you didn't realize your actions would hurt her and you're sorry to cause her pain, and that you'll have to consider more carefully next time. As mentioned earlier, keep it real. Do not promise never to do it again if you don't intend to keep that promise. If the thing that upsets her is a thing that is fundamental to your personality, you might not be able to change it to a degree that will make her comfortable, and that may mean you will eventually have to part ways.
Be real with her, and with yourself. This cannot be stressed enough. If you find yourself saying or doing something and thinking another, step back. Take a look at yourself, and ask yourself what you really want. Share that self with her, because she can and will see that you aren't everything that you say and do.
Tips
When you are at a restaurant, sit across from her at the table (unless the table is really long, in which case you should sit next to her). Allow her to sit facing the room, while you face the wall. This way you give the impression that you require no view other than her beauty.
Taking her to places that cost lots of money isn't necessary. Take her to the park, maybe buy ice cream on the way; that way you interact with her. If you do go to the movies, plan on going for coffee or dessert after (which means a light dinner, and less expense - bonus!) so that you can talk about what you just saw.
Take things slow. Don't rush into an emotional or physical attachment just because you think you should.
Look her directly in the eyes when you speak to her or when she is speaking to you. But don't be creepy about it. Staring is not considered attentiveness; it's considered weird.
Show that you are impressed by her, but don't forget to impress her with something different. Show you are different and sometimes crazy about life. Show her something that only you have got.
Girls are constantly analyzing you, what you do, how you dress, dates you take them on, and lots of other things. Take this into account and dress for the situation, as a good balance will keep them impressed. There's no point in dressing to impress, then being cheap about where you take her. It's like going to a nice restaurant in a tracksuit.
Avoid the temptation to idolize her or put her on a pedestal. She is as human as you are, and the more willing you are to accept that, the less likely she is to disappoint you.
Arrogant men don't get all the girls, confident guys do, and there's a huge difference. Women are less visually-oriented than men are, so even if you're not the most attractive guy in the world, your confidence will suggest that you're someone worth being with and your personality will back up that suggestion. Plus, if you are kind and warm when interacting with her and with others, she will see your value without your needing to have movie-star good looks. Just act and dress like a gentleman, and everything should be sweet.
Opening doors and pulling out chairs for the girl is not old fashioned, it's cute! Any girl likes a boy who will treat her well.
Hold her close to you, and be gentle when it's necessary.
Don't swear excessively or be crude. If you act immaturely, she is less likely to enjoy your company.
Put yourself in her place and treat her accordingly. In other words, how would you wish to be treated, if you were her?
Remember: no matter how hard you're working to Get The Girl, it's all but guaranteed that she is trying just as hard to find Mr. Right. A girl isn't that mystifying or distant of a creature, and she wants to love and be loved just as much as you do.
Hold her hand, especially if you catch her dangling it surreptitiously behind her. Many a girl loves the togetherness feeling of holding hands, not to mention you're affirming your interest in each other publicly without being crude. In other words, you're proud of her, and a man who can take pride in her will make any girl feel that they are treated well.
Warnings
Don't stutter, mumble, or say "Um" or "Uh"; that will make her think you're bored. Take your time and think about what you want to say before you launch into some rambling tirade.
If she tells you about a personal problem, don't try to fix it. Just listen to her. (There are a few exceptions.) If she starts to cry, this is a big clue that she's really into you; it indicates that she trusts you enough to show she's vulnerable with you. A nice gesture here is to put your arms around her and just hold her. Don't say "Don't cry." Say, "Aww. It's going to be okay."
If you exaggerate your compliments or are insincere, a girl can usually see through that.
Make sure you're being yourself. If you act like a gentleman when you are alone with her, and then like a jerk when you're with your friends, she will catch on and you will run into trouble.
Make sure she doesn't find out you tried to learn how to make her laugh by reading articles on the Internet, at least not until your one-year anniversary. By then, she's definitely into you and minor things
Got this from www.wikihow.com, can find some other topics like, how to be nice to a girl......guys out there, take nothice of this site, you'll learn alot about what a girl wants.
Thursday, August 14, 2008
Want to say Happy Belated bday to my lil' brother who have just turned 10 on Monday, 11th August. I have greet him though on Monday, but its ok i guess to greet him again. Anyway, my mum decide to celebrate his b'day earlier, on the 9th of August which is on the Saturday, that way, people can enjoy the party 'till late at night since the next day is rest day. 
Stephen invite one of his friend over, and i invite a few of my close friends over. My mum invite her own friends over as well.
These are all my close friends, Yus (the girl who inspired korean group to me), her lil' sis (the cut one), Aming (the loud one), Sur (the shy one)
Why look so bored girls??
Stephen, trying to figure out where to start slicing the cake
I think they're really excited to try the cake
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
On Monday night ,i went to Chung Hwa School in KB at their hall to watch an artist who came all the way from Taiwan to tell us about his life stories, Xie Kun Shan story.
My dad got 3 free ticket to go there, one of his friends give it to him, so he decided to bring me and my sis. He knows i like drawing that's why i guess he choose me and he told me that the man actually don't have any hands and legs due to some accident, so i learned later on, my sis, well, i guess coz my mum wasn't all that excited about this at all, so my sis was kinda forced to go. She was like, "What? Why are you going?" and i was like "Hello, u know i like drawing, whats wrong with going?" After about a few minutes of telling her i actually wanted very much to go, we got dressed.
When we were finally there, we quickly got seated and i saw the guy sitting on the first row and people were talking to him, its true, he don't have both arms, but he got legs, and my sis was like, "What the ****! Dad said he don't have arms and legs, he's very exaggerating!" The guy was sitting there with both legs, hahaha, i guess my dad just wanted my sis to go, so he say something to spice it up.
My dad got 3 free ticket to go there, one of his friends give it to him, so he decided to bring me and my sis. He knows i like drawing that's why i guess he choose me and he told me that the man actually don't have any hands and legs due to some accident, so i learned later on, my sis, well, i guess coz my mum wasn't all that excited about this at all, so my sis was kinda forced to go. She was like, "What? Why are you going?" and i was like "Hello, u know i like drawing, whats wrong with going?" After about a few minutes of telling her i actually wanted very much to go, we got dressed.
When we were finally there, we quickly got seated and i saw the guy sitting on the first row and people were talking to him, its true, he don't have both arms, but he got legs, and my sis was like, "What the ****! Dad said he don't have arms and legs, he's very exaggerating!" The guy was sitting there with both legs, hahaha, i guess my dad just wanted my sis to go, so he say something to spice it up.
Anyway, he went on stage and told us about him and his life, how he was a normal kid back then just like all of us, just that when he was younger, his family was average, not really very rich or poor, just enough to feed them, so he will help out his family everytime after he come back from school, well, one day while he was working, he accidentally got electrocuted, and he lost both his arms and legs, later he got another accident and lost an eye (one eye went blind), but he never gave up, his mother was there encouraging him and he doesn't want to burden the family, so he start taking art, holding brush using his mouth, writing using his mouth, and eventually he become very talented in drawing. He is mostly into scenery. He even showed us a drawing of a pair of fish, and he sign the drawing, it was really nice.
After that, he talks some more about himself, and how little kids, would approched him with curiosity in their eyes, asking him lots of questions, like, how do you relief yourself when u need to, how do you eat, how do you drive, it's actually all command questions when you really wonder how they do all that.....he don't seems to mind all the question at all, he would answer them patiently, explaining how he do it. He won't get furious or annoyed, instead he would even add in some jokes.
He have a beautiful wife and two lovely daughters. He is one man i know who live for a purpose and i can see that life to him is full of meanings. It was really touching. When he finish his stories, everyone was clapping and really look up to him, even a family from Malaysia, come all the way just to have his signature on the book he wrote about.
Read the news from this site: http://www.brunei-online.com/bb/wed/aug13h9.htm
Sunday, August 10, 2008
I love watching the Kimora show, Life in the Fab Lane, it's very interesting, you see, she's a model, a designer, and she's also a mother of two little girls. This show is about her success, her life, her family, her career, well, another thing, her demand is very high, so whoever works with her have to have lots and lots of patient and whatever they do, they have to do better than what they can do.......here's a little of what Life in the Fab Lane is all about, got this from wikipedia.....
Kimora: Life In The Fab Lane is a reality show about Kimora Lee Simmons' life and work as the head of Baby Phat. Kimora is, as she states, a model, a mogul and most importantly a mom. The show is often filmed at her estate in Upper Saddle River, NJ on Fox Hedge Road and in NYC at the Simmons' offices. In her younger years she was a highly successful model. Her urban couture line Baby Phat and also her new line KLS have had international success. The show is centered around her home life, her co workers and her designing career. It currently airs on Style Network and premiered on August 5, 2007. It now is airing on E! Entertainment Television on Sunday nights at 10:30. A second season will begin airing on April 20, 2008.
Kimora Lee Simmons
Kimora Lee Simmons is a model-turned-designer and the star of her own Style Network reality show, Kimora: Life in the Fab Lane.
Kimora started modeling as a teenager and was quickly groomed to be a top fashion model by designer Karl Lagerfeld. Considered by many to be the designer's muse, Kimora and three other models were dubbed "the four Karlettes."
But Kimora's Cinderella story wouldn't be complete without her marriage to the "Godfather of Hip-Hop," Russell Simmons, with whom she has two daughters -- Ming Lee, 7, and Aoki Lee, 5. Eventually, Kimora became the president and creative director of premiere female hip-hop brand Baby Phat, a spinoff of Russell's Phat Farm line.
Today, Kimora's fashion empire includes clothing, shoes, fragrance, cosmetics, dolls and jewelry. Her book, Fabulosity: What It Is & How to Get It, is a how-to guide for those wishing to follow in Kimora's footsteps. In it, she shares her personal secrets of success and tells others how to empower themselves to achieve what they want in life.
Life in the Fab Lane chronicles the joyride that is Kimora's life, from managing her clothing line and the people who help her run it, to raising her daughters while trying to live life to the fullest and stay fabulous. http://www.mystyle.com/mystyle/shows/kimora/castbios/index.jsp
Kimora Lee Simmons is a model-turned-designer and the star of her own Style Network reality show, Kimora: Life in the Fab Lane.
Kimora started modeling as a teenager and was quickly groomed to be a top fashion model by designer Karl Lagerfeld. Considered by many to be the designer's muse, Kimora and three other models were dubbed "the four Karlettes."
But Kimora's Cinderella story wouldn't be complete without her marriage to the "Godfather of Hip-Hop," Russell Simmons, with whom she has two daughters -- Ming Lee, 7, and Aoki Lee, 5. Eventually, Kimora became the president and creative director of premiere female hip-hop brand Baby Phat, a spinoff of Russell's Phat Farm line.
Today, Kimora's fashion empire includes clothing, shoes, fragrance, cosmetics, dolls and jewelry. Her book, Fabulosity: What It Is & How to Get It, is a how-to guide for those wishing to follow in Kimora's footsteps. In it, she shares her personal secrets of success and tells others how to empower themselves to achieve what they want in life.
Life in the Fab Lane chronicles the joyride that is Kimora's life, from managing her clothing line and the people who help her run it, to raising her daughters while trying to live life to the fullest and stay fabulous. http://www.mystyle.com/mystyle/shows/kimora/castbios/index.jsp
Friday, August 8, 2008
So, i didn't exactly see the whole show last night at TV, but i saw halfway through, anyway, i have just one word to say about all the performance, amazing, really, coz' you know i wasn't very interested in it but i can see all the china people putting lots of effort into performing all the amazing stuff, i really want to say i'm so proud of the china people, even our Brunei sultan is there watching live in China. My sis keep saying "Im so proud to be a chinese." "Im sure i'll cry if im there watching it live." Well, i guess maybe i'll be so amazed i can't even cry, it was very touching coz all of the china people were so cooperative, no one makes any mistakes (well, from what i see anyway), here a pic of the stadium.
Try looking for the opening at youtube, u might find some video there.
Wednesday, August 6, 2008
I guess im really influenced by my friend, Yus, it's all your fault i go to youtube everyday just to fing korean mv, especially the girl band, hahahaha, now i come to know of wonder girls, girl generation, kara, jewelry, brown eyed girls, black pearl, and i remember she mentioned a few others but those slip my mind, anyway, im now interested in most of thier dance, coz they kinda have their own style, not really like the western dance, and its more fun coz most of the dance are fresh and young, people will see their dance and say 'Cute' instead of 'Hot', but in some way, they are, hahahaha, what am i saying???
Here are some picture of the girl band i found on the internet.....
Jewelry
I didn't find the black pearl picture. So, only these five girl band. You can see their mv at youtube, can learn their dance tutorial.......
Monday, August 4, 2008
Wow, its been awhile since i wrote in here, been busy these couple of weeks doing office work, hahaha, i am now interested in one of the korean dance, actually only for a particular song called "Tell me", by wondergirls, the dance is really cute, the first time i saw it, i really fell in love with the dance coz' its really cute. So, i have tried, but, it looks weird, but if more than one people dance to that song in unision, it'll look really cute, and fresh, even young, maybe i exaggerated a lil', but its true, coz u will not see middle age dancing to that kind of music and dance. So just have a look at the dance at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wpcDPr6b5o4 .
I watched the 'Living Lohan' program last night, it was kinda funny and very interesting as you get to know the Lohan family. I actually like to see Ali Lohan (Linsey Lohan younger sister), she's getting more prettier as she grew up, and they have a young brother who looks like Linsey coz he got red hair just like she did before. Really cute. Anyway, they seems to have another older brother named Michael. Anyway, here the cast in 'Living Lohan'.
DinaMother of four, she's also the manager for daughters Ali and Lindsay. Challenging roles to straddle, indeed, but if anyone's up to the task, it's Dina. Long Island-born and -bred, she's one tough cookie. She gave up her own dreams of professional dancing early on when she became a mom, but she eventually guided Lindsay to the showbiz career she never had. Now she intends to do the same for Ali. She encourages her kids to spread their wings and fly, even it means there may be turbulence along the way.
AliAt age 14, she's ready to launch her career as a singer and actress, just like her big sister. Outspoken, beautiful beyond her years, a bit of a rebel (though also highly protective of her mother), she's the girl young teens look up to when they've outgrown Hannah Montana. She's determined to achieve success—but she's savvy about the pitfalls of fame.
CodyEleven-year-old Cody's more into soccer than movie stardom—for now, at least. When he's not off playing sports with his buds, he can probably be found tormenting sister Ali and skating in his socks on the dining room table.
NanaThe Lohan family matriarch, she's Dina's mom and the kids' grandmother. As the voice of reason in the household, Nana tells it like it is—and Dina pays attention! In her early days, Nana was a radio actress (maybe that's where the family showbiz bug comes from?), and she has a very grounded perspective on Hollywood, fame and success. Though she's still grieving the loss of her husband, she's also a funny, sassy and a down-to-earth counterbalance to the tumultuous Lohan lifestyle.
Michael JrMichael attends Ithaca College on an academic scholarship and takes both his studies and his lacrosse very seriously. As the eldest son, Michael feels it's his responsibility to be the man of the house and a positive role model for his younger siblings. Michael's college sweetheart, Nina, has found a welcome and loving place in the Lohan home.
Got their info from http://www.eonline.com/on/shows/livinglohan/castbios/index.jsp
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